Avoid Getting Played

Being with the wrong person is emotionally exhausting. You’re constantly questioning what to do and wondering if things will ever change. Understand why you stay and recognise when you’re being played.

Date someone who actually cares about you

You can waste months, even years, trying to save a relationship that’s better left behind. Endless arguments about quality time, your future, or loyalty only drag things out and sacrifice your sanity.
Avoid Getting Played helps you decide if this relationship is truly right for you, so you can stop wasting time and start investing in someone you can genuinely build a life with.

A little about me

I got played. I stayed in relationships where I was strung along, cheated on, neglected, and fed empty promises. At every turn, I kept convincing myself that things would change, ignoring the pain I was allowing into my life.
After picking myself up, I knew something had to change, so I wrote this book.
No one should have to spend years questioning themselves or sacrificing their peace in the name of love. We all deserve to find love, feel peace, and build truly satisfying relationships.

What Readers are Saying

This book is a great guide to understanding why you may be stuck in certain relationship cycles. I find myself using and recommending the exercises to friends.

– Charlene, Advance Reader

This book is every Lover Girl’s guide to conscious dating. Every big-hearted woman needs one in her hands. It’s an honest, deeply validating roadmap that bridges the gap between loving deeply and standing firm in your worth. Instead of forcing you into cold rules or game-playing, it equips you to trust your intuition, advocate for your needs, and keep your heart open without compromising your standards.

– PM, Advance Reader

I loved this book. It’s a book that focuses on positive life reflection. It encouraged me to look into my own life and challenged me to take a stand and make a difference, despite the outcome.

– Sammie, Advance Reader

Change how you date with
Avoid Getting Played:
The Journal

Guided prompts and reflective exercises to help you heal, grow, and make empowered choices.
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Check in with yourself

Pause, reflect, and ask yourself the difficult questions before those small decisions begin to shape how you date and who you choose.
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